Comments on: Hurt

By: Jodith

Jodith — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 02:13:33 +0000

Unfortunately, being someone who *is* fat and not pregnant, I can tell you that type of comment isn’t out of the ordinary. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been told what I should or shouldn’t eat at a restaurant or how many times people have lectured me about exercise and diet. People just feel like they can say anything they want to fat people.

*laughs with Miniar* It’s funny, but I hold my breath when passing someone who’s smoking so I won’t cough and make them feel bad. My dad was a chain smoker, and I know just how hard it is to quit. It drives me crazy when folks insist on telling us how to live our lives when they know *nothing* about us.

By: LiviaIndica

LiviaIndica — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:36:45 +0000

How horrible! I’m so sorry you had to deal with such a hateful, spiteful person. What a supermondomegabitch! And how shallow, narrow minded and petty must she be to think that’s an okay thing to say to someone? Unbelievable!

Take care of yourself!

By: Angela

Angela — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:44:32 +0000

Wow I’m so sorry Jaspy! I seriously CANNOT believe someone could be that cruel as to go up to some stranger without any knowledge of their history and say something like that.

I also can’t believe that after you said “what the hell” that she just smiled and walked off. JUST SICK!!

Don’t worry Jaspy she’ll get whats coming to her. *hugs* Hope you’re feeling much, much better!! <3

By: Jaspenelle

Jaspenelle — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:11:48 +0000

I don’t wish her ill. Okay, I DID when I typed that entry but now after a few hours… She is not worth that kind of mental effort. You are right, she’ll end up where the universe decides without my ill wishes.

By: Jaspenelle

Jaspenelle — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:10:49 +0000

No, I only managed to sputter out “What the hell is wrong with you?” Of course now that it has been several hours and I am home I can think of a million better retorts…

By: the_becka

the_becka — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:46:09 +0000

I’m agreeing with Rhomany – don’t wish her ill. That woman will probably end up as a miserable old fogey, possibly demented and immobile, and alone in a hospital room/nursing home somewhere.

By: Miniar

Miniar — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:58:44 +0000

Well I would have yelled at her…

But then, I remember when people walk up to me, when I’m having the one smoke I have a week, which I choose to have even if I’m fully aware of the potential consequences. So, there I am, comfortable in the evening sun, in a nice spot, having a nice smoke of my pipe, and some dipshit comes up to me with a snide comment about how it’s “bad” for me, or worse, walks by coughing… and I can’t help but to think to myself “why aren’t you making comments at that fat person across the street with the hamburger”…

… so…

yeah….

I would have yelled at her…

By: Miele

Miele — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:49:43 +0000

You told her you were pregnant right? Cause at the very least that would have embarassed her.

By: Jaspenelle

Jaspenelle — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:20:11 +0000

I think that is why I was speechless then sputtering out my response, it was so random and cruel! So random. Had I not been there I’d think it was some crazy dream or something.

By: Rhomany

Rhomany — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:15:50 +0000

*hugs* I’m sorry you’re hurting. People who are cruel have often been hurt themselves and are trying to make others feel like they do all the time. Feel good in the fact that you’re not like that, so the chain will break with you.
Don’t wish her ill. It’ll rob you of the chance to stick your pregnant belly out at her in a few weeks and look very smug

By: Zyleeth

Zyleeth — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:12:49 +0000

….What!? She must be a pretty miserable person, some people just feel like sharing their misery. The good thing is it never lasts forever for their victims, like it does for them. The important thing is that you are indeed healthy.

Sorry, that’s just so amazingly random and asinine. I had to sit here and go O_o for a second.