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Autumn Equinox

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The cool down of Autumn have finally arrived and so has the peak of the harvest season. Fat pumpkins lay in fields, apple branches bend low with heavy yield and the Earth’s bounty overflows the garden and farm. This harvest begs to be enjoyed, but also preserved. Winter’s icy days draw near.

Technically speaking an equinox is a day when the Sun will spend an equal amount of time above and below the horizon. This happens twice a year, in Autumn and Spring. Autumn Equinox is the tipping point into the dark half of the year. Today we are also entering into the sunsign of Libra, her scales are a perfect echo of the light/dark balance of this equinox. Historically speaking, nearly every culture has some form of harvest festival, many celebrated still today.

Megalithic people of ancient Britain and Ireland obviously placed some kind of importance on both the solstices and equinoxes. Otherwise they would not have build stone structures like Stonehenge and Loughcrew Cairn to determine their dates. Their methods of celebrating these days has been long lost to history though.

The ancient Celts constructed a wickerman around this time of the year as well. It was ritually burned to represent the plant spirits returning to the earth to rest until Spring. An incarnation of this ancient idea has been reborn in recent years in the Burning Man Project, a yearly festival celebrated in the Autumn in Nevada. A giant wickerman is constructed and burned at the height of the week long festival.

The Mayans constructed a sacred pyramid called Chichen Itza, which acted in a similar way to the stone structures of the Megalithic people of Britain and Ireland. On the day of the Autumn Equinox a “serpent of light” descends the pyramid until it joins this a huge stone rattlesnake head at its base. (This serpent is actually seven isosceles triangles that are formed from the sunlight hitting the pyramid stairs.)
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Bridges and Circles

circleI have recently reconnect with a couple people in my family. It feels really nice to touch base again, because one of these people has been someone I could always talk to about anything without fear of being mocked or the “I’m right and you’re wrong” debate. At the same time, this all is utterly nerve wracking.

You see, a few years ago in my drive to break free from the life I was living, I pretty much perfected a method of burning bridges. So I guess, to a certain degree, I do not feel I deserve their trust again. I’ll also admit that I might be a little wary of hidden agendas, apparently my ability to trust took a hit too. I have changed so much, how much have they changed? Will they still see me the way I once was?

Still, I think it is worth taking the chance. Besides, it is not like I can get dragged into any family disputes anyhow. My nearest family is in Indianapolis (as far as I know.) Most of the rest are in either in Ontario or Mexico. My mother lives in a place in Ontario with little phone or internet access and my father and brother are the furthest. They live in the UAE which is, oh, 12 time zones away (how is tomorrow going Dad?) Ironically I talk to my father most often, since we both have skype now.

The other day it occurred to me, but for a handful of people, I hardly know my family, both my mother and fathers side. On facebook all these people friend me and I know we are related but beyond that I know virtually nothing about them. I suppose this is the sacrifice required for moving around as much as I did as a child. Not that I am complaining! I wouldn’t change my upbringing for the world, it has made me who I am.

Part of my brain says Damian should know his heritage, though I honestly am not sure if he will miss not knowing most of his biological family from my side, growing up I really didn’t miss it (until now.) He definitely does not have a shortage of local family. Most of Michael’s family lives within two or three states of us and his parents and all his siblings are within a couple hours. We also have our “framily” (friends who are like family,) in fact we are going camping with his “Aunt” Shannon and her daughter in a couple weeks. His goddessparents, Michelle and Mikcos are also local. My framily are for the most part also my spiritual circle of friends.

Still, I yearn for the family stories that I can share them with Damian as he grows – my Samhain family stories are woefully few. Honoring the ancestors is a very integral part of my faith, which is funny because I know virtually nothing about mine. I want him to know of the ancestors we set the extra place at the table for.

So I hope bridges can continue to be mended, and perhaps made into circles, so that history and laughter can be shared again (or in many cases, for the first time!)

Four Things Meme

I found this on i am a butterfly…

Four things about me that you may or may not have known, in no particular order.

Four jobs I have had:
1. Bakery Cashier
2. Walmart Sales Floor Associate (aka Stocker)
3. Telemarketer
4. Parking lot Attendant

Four cars I have Owned/Shared:
1. Michael drives and ‘88 Honda Civic.
2. I am sure my dad had a few cars, damned it I know what make or model.
3. …
4. …

Four movies I would watch (or have watched) over again:
1. Little Nicky
2. Princess Bride
3. Wicker Man (1973)
4. Deeply

Four places I have lived:
1. Canada
2. United States
3. France
4. Spain

Four TV Shows that I watch:
1. Morning News
2. Evening News
3. Two and a Half Men
4. Bones

Places I have been abroad:
1. Mexico
2. Italy
3. Germany
4. England

People who email me:
1. Michael
2. Jett
3. People who want to enlarge my penis.
4. People with millions of dollars in Africa.

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Strawberries
2. Pomegranates
3. Tomatoes
4. Whole Wheat Pancakes with Blueberries

Four foods I hate:
1. Eggs
2. Liver
3. Hot Dogs
4. Tempeh

Four places I would rather be right now:
1. In the southern hemisphere (it is late summer their right?)
2. Somewhere where pregnant women have unsquishable bladders.
3. In a cottage in the woods with a roaring fire and smores.
4. Endless Strawberries and Whipped Cream Land?

Things I am looking forward to this year:
1. Being a mommy!
2. My friend’s handfasting
3. Temple Free Spirit gatherings
4. Living, Loving and Learning